DelphiFAQ Home Search:

Dating scammer Becker Anderson

 

comments54 comments. Current rating: 3 stars (8 votes). Leave comments and/ or rate it.

Name: Becker Anderson


Email: realbecker1@aol.com // becker.anderson@hotmail.com


Address:
Local Western Union agent address as supplied to me by Becker:
24A Avocado dr,
Becker anderson
24A Avocado dr,
Ikeja
Lagos
Nigeria
23401



Other Comments:
I first came into contact with Becker on the http://www.friendsreuniteddating.co.uk on the 10/03/2007. His name on the site is Goldheartbecker. He has broken my heart, I thought he was the one for me after our constant emails & telephone calls to each other. His letters were so utterly romantic & now I have been duped - as this morning he told me he was starving hungry, had no money untill he got paid next week & could I send him some money via Western Union? This aroused my suspicions immediately & I pointed out to him directly that I believed him to be an internet dating site scammer, which he denied. Below is our MSN chat conversation which I saved to file.
Becker says:
Sweetie ....i feel sad here
Gina says:
DON'T BE SAD - WE SHOULD BE THE MOST HAPPIEST TWO PEOPLE IN THE WORLD!
Becker says:
Yes baby
Becker says:
but am having a lil problem here and i wish u can help me
Gina says:
i missed you last night soooooo much
Gina says:
....honey what is it? how can I HELP?
Becker says:
i missed u too
Becker says:
Sweetie could u believe i didn't eat here last night?
Becker says:
and this morning
Gina says:
WHY NOT?
Becker says:
u know i wont get paid untill am done with my contract here
Gina says:
so what do you want - money?
Becker says:
No baby
Becker says:
how do u thing u can help baby
Gina says:
by flying out to see you, be near you.... i don't know what would you want me to do?
Becker says:
weetie ...do u think u can help me with few bucks to get some fod here?
Becker says:
Gina says:
don't you have any savings? can't you ask your company for a sub?
Becker says:
Sweetie ..the company will be paying me when am done next week
Gina says:
You said you didn't want any money
Becker says:
Sweetie...not that i dont have any money
Becker says:
Aight...?
Becker says:
But its not much..and things here are expensive
Gina says:
so??........... buy yourself some food baby
Becker says:
Sweetie..its not much here...i used the last bucks on food last night
Becker says:
Sweetie are u there?
Gina says:
You know what? I thought this was too good to be true - now I AM SO HURT BECAUSE i think you are one of those internat dating scammers - there has been alot about that on the news lately. What do you take me for, some dumb person you could take for a ride? - shame on you Becker - if that's your real name. I fell in love with you for chrisets sake....
Becker says:
Sweetie am not asking u for ur money baby
Becker says:
I was trying to let u know that i also have money...but i cant get it here Lisa
Becker says:
hy do u have to make me feel this way??
Gina says:
Now I a gaping hole in my heart & don't feel I CAN TRUST YOU ANYMORE. yOU HAVE LEFT ME WITH ANWONDERFUL ILLUSION @ SHATTERED DREAMS OF WHAT WE COULD HAVE BEEN TOGETHER
Becker says:
Sweetie why are u making me feel this way?
Becker says:
DO u think am trying to get money from u or wht?
Gina says:
It's not that I want you to feel this way but yes that is how you have made me feel. I AM A VERY GENEROUS PERSON BUT YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND i have never met you in person..........
Becker says:
Yes i know baby
Becker says:
I do understand
Becker says:
Sweetie we have to deal with trust here till we meet
Becker says:
See my love....if we cant trust eachother now...Then when??
Gina says:
i know that but I am also a very cautious person when it comes to money. Of course I would like to trust you: your photos gave the insight that we are at least equal standing but this request from you has cast a huge doubt in my mind
Becker says:
Oh no baby
Becker says:
No
Gina says:
.....what about your work colleagues, maybe they could help?
Becker says:
well they all are greedy assholes
Becker says:
Sweetie...i have a company i worked for in Uk
Becker says:
Now now they are willing to pay me off baby
Gina says:
what is the name? & how long ago?
Becker says:
8months
Gina says:
surely they should have paid you before or soon after you left them?
Gina says:
what is the name of the company?
Becker says:
yes..but they had a lil problem then
Becker says:
So sweetie do u think i can trust u with this?
Gina says:
what is the name of the company?
Becker says:
Brixton Company
Gina says:
IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU TRUSTING ME AT THIS POINT, IT'S ABOUT ME TRUSTING YOU! - I don't believe that's a true company name - what type of business is it?
Becker says:
They run an international shipping
Gina says:
so what is the name of the company tou work for now?
Becker says:
EA TEXTILES
Gina says:
What type of business is it & what is your job title with them?
Becker says:
Its a textile company and i work as a Cpa Accountant
Gina says:
.... so an accountant with no money or access to it? why can't you access your bank accounnt baby? sorry to sound so cynical.
Becker says:
how do umean?
Becker says:
its a Uk check and i cant get it cash here
Gina says:
so how would I get money to you if that is what I decide?
Becker says:
Westernunion baby
Gina says:
Can't you ask you family, brother to post the money via western union?
Becker says:
U know baby
Becker says:
i told u about how i lostmy siblings
Becker says:
now u make me feel so sad again
Gina says:
what do I know honey?
Becker says:
u there?
Gina says:
You have never told me that - it is something I would remember. What you did say was that you were a & I quote: 'a son, brother parent ' etc........ how do you explain this?
Becker says:
Sweetie...i told u i lost my wife and kid in an auto accident 5 years ago when i was in germany and my dad died when i moved to the states
Becker says:

Gina says:
your profile says you are a widower but we have never discussed that part of your life.I'm sorry.
Becker says:
yes baby
Becker says:
but its okay
Becker says:

Gina says:
write something to me in German baby
Becker says:

Becker says:
like wht?
Gina says:
whatever you fell like saying to me!
Becker says:
ok
Becker says:
ich liebe u
Becker says:
do u know hwt that mean?
Gina says:
yes! more please?
Becker says:
Like?
Gina says:
a few sentences........about you
Becker says:
ok
Becker says:
ich wuchs in Deutschland. .and auf, das ich singles gewesen bin, nachdem ich meine Frau verlor und Sohn in einem Motor accident.now morgens glücklich ich u lisa fand
Gina says:
baby i'm crying because I feel I have been so horrible to you!
Becker says:
Baby,...it sokay
Becker says:
Just that u made me feel so sad and foolish here
Becker says:
May be u thought i was lying to u
Gina says:
Believe me I didn't want to make you feel that way
Becker says:

Gina says:
I'm honest & I have to admit I did
Becker says:
Its okay Darling
Gina says:
sorry, don't you have to be in work today?
Becker says:
No am off today

Becker says:
i love u so much my Darling Lisa
Gina says:
Have you read my mails yet?
Becker says:
yes..Daring
Becker says:
So sweetie...how do u feel u can help me
Gina says:
I can't & I feel so bad about that
Becker says:
no am not asking u for miney my love
Becker says:
I just want u to help me get my check from the company
Gina says:
sorry - what do you mean then?
Gina says:
How do I go about doing that?
Becker says:
i will just ask them to send it to u
Becker says:
then u can help me get the cash and wire it to me
Gina says:
& then what do i do with it?
Becker says:
u there??
Gina says:
yes baby
Becker says:
DO u understand now?
Gina says:
But it will be a chq made out in your name honey I can't cash or bank it for you
Gina says:
yes i understand
Becker says:
No..i will make them make it in ur name baby
Becker says:
iw ill tell them u are my fiancy
Gina says:
wow, you really trust me that much?
Becker says:
Sweetie...i have to..cos i want this to work out for is baby
Gina says:
.......the same goes for you my precious how can you be so sure about me? we have only known each other for a few days........
Becker says:
Yes baby
Becker says:
thats why we need trust and makes thsi work
Becker says:
I love u
Gina says:
ok, if that's what you want I will agree to do as you ask. Put the chq in the name of Gina ******* & send me the details of where to wire the money to.
Becker says:
okay
Becker says:
whts the address??
Gina says:
send me the details of where to wire the money to first.
Becker says:
Okay
Becker says:
Name...Becker anderson
Becker says:
addess....24A Avocado dr,
Becker says:
City....Ikeja
Becker says:
States.....Lagos
Becker says:
Country.......Nigeria
Becker says:
ZipCode....23401
Becker says:
did u get it?
Gina says:
yes
Becker says:
ok
Becker says:
So whts ur addresss??
Becker says:
where they will send it to baby
Gina says:
Gina *********
Gina says:
*******(work address)
Becker says:
post code
Becker says:
post code
Becker says:
post code and city
Becker says:
whats the post code?
Gina says:
I'm just getting it for you - i've forgotten it!
Becker says:
ok
Gina says:
city is **********
Becker says:
i have that already
Becker says:
i mean the post code
Becker says:
zip code
Gina says:
I know zip code means post code honey
Becker says:
so what is the post code honey?
Becker says:
every address has post code
Gina says:
scrap prvios addrees format, here is how you should write it:********
Becker says:
ok i got it
Gina says:
I don't have the need to use it every day!
Gina says:
good
Becker says:
ok honey
Becker says:
so, what do you have planned for the rest of the ay?
Becker says:
day?
Gina says:
are you smiling now?
Becker says:
yes honey
Gina says:
to stay on line with you & get to know you some more baby
Becker says:
ok honey
Becker says:
i need to go to the bathroom real quick
Becker says:
i will be back shortly

I then didn't here from him for about 1 1/2 hrs!

IS THIS MAN A SCAMMER? I SERIOUSLY HPOE NOT BUT I NEED TO KNOW - NOT JUST FOR MYSELF BUT FOR OTHER UNSUSPECTING HOPEFULS OUT THERE


Content-type: text/html

Comments:

You are on page 1 of 4, other pages: [1] 2 3 4
2007-03-14, 12:07:54   (updated: )
[hidden] from United Kingdom  



Keywords:
2007-03-14, 12:07:54   (updated: )
[hidden] from United Kingdom  



Keywords:
2007-03-14, 12:07:54   (updated: )
[hidden] from United Kingdom  



Keywords: man black shirt
2007-03-17, 01:02:41
anonymous from United Kingdom  
Honey don't send a bean , dump him now!Asking for money is a SURE sign.
2007-03-17, 01:09:50
anonymous from United Kingdom  
By the way the'll infiltrate any web site possible,the lady i conversed with was on a chat site called 'faceparty'. She was supposed to be in 'Malta'(my fav holiday destination) but after a few e-mails she tells me she lives in Ghana, anyway to cut a long story short i got suspicious and asked her to use a internet cafe's web cam to reveal herself....that was the end then...she said i couldn't be trusted...have heard no more!
2007-03-17, 01:15:21
anonymous from United Kingdom  
By the way the'll infiltrate any web site possible,the lady i conversed with was on a chat site called 'faceparty'. She was supposed to be in 'Malta'(my fav holiday destination) but after a few e-mails she tells me she lives in Ghana, anyway to cut a long story short i got suspicious and asked her to use a internet cafe's web cam to reveal herself....that was the end then...she said i couldn't be trusted...have heard no more!
2007-03-28, 02:46:07
anonymous from United States  
My Friend was scammed for lots of money from Becker Anderson. He is just using you.
2007-04-07, 21:09:33
anonymous from United States  
he's on the website Singles Connection too!! www.singlesconnection.com
2007-04-19, 13:52:25
anonymous from Canada  
Thank you so much for your comments as this man has been pursuing me relentlessly on Singlesnet. He has also told me that he has taken his profile off because he only wants me!! He also asked for my postal code which I thought was strange and then told me that he knows someone who lives in my area....I think this was to make me feel more comfortable with him. I received the same pictures from him and I am attaching a copy of the letter I received from him. He has not asked me for money yet, but I'm sure that is to come. I will absolutely not be sending any cash his way!!

Hi Princess.
Leslie, When I saw your profile on singlesnet.com for the first time, it was so pretty and secure, although beauty wasnt what I was searching for, I was amazed that my heart could still beat that hard, you were the most pretty woman my heart had laid eyes on in a very long time. Before knowing you, I had heard of passion and love and seen it in movies; never dreamed that kind of emotion would ever come to me.I still remember the way you made me feel the first day that we talk with your lovely and honest words. I knew from the first words spoken between the two of us, that things were never going to be the same for me anymore, and that I was going to have to sort out these mysterious feelings that I was having. We had to have time with one another again to help me understand what was happening to me. I needed to figure out how it was that you were able to cast such a spell over me.
After spending time talking with you, I felt I have known you for years, I n ow know how real passion and love can be. You have opened my heart, and opened the gate to a new world for me. Did you know you had such a power?
My life is starting to become so different, even if my days seem the same. And I must confess that it's you who has changed my outlook. You have opened my eyes to some amazing new possibilities. I will forever be filled with a new sense of wonder and joy, because you have shared yourself with me.
Leslie, I must confess that in some ways I feel inadequate. My mind is questioned; can I match your gentleness? Can I give you feelings as warm and secure as the ones you have bestowed on me? You have chosen to show me such strong passion combined with secure sweet affection, that I can only hope with time you feel a glimpse of the same emotions from me.
Until then you are in my heart, and in my mind, and I will ache until I return, with a yearning that can only be satisfied by y our loving arms and warm kisses.
Ever dreaming about yo u, my best friend with benefits,..
Your Prince
Becker
2007-04-21, 15:19:39
anonymous from United States  
Hi leslie, Becker also has been in contact with me since end of January of 2007, he professes love and devotion, write pretty poems. i wondered if we are talking to the same man, even though its the same pictures. well, anyway, yes, he has asked for money to help him to get to the states. yes, i have been scammed. so i guess we are in love with the same man. good luck.
2007-04-21, 16:40:55
anonymous  
everyone who is contact with becker anderson is being scammed. i just found out that a man in africa is using all of this man's names and accounts left in the hotel room. Please discontinue all contact with becker anderson. He is not for real.
2007-04-22, 22:26:19   (updated: 2007-04-22, 22:28:56)
anonymous from Canada  
So, are you telling me that this poor man in the pictures is a good guy, but there is some scammer out there pretending to be him? I thought he was posing as himself and was the scammer. I can see the scammer getting his ID, but these pictures don't look like pictures someone would carry around of themselves as part of their ID. I have deleted him from my MSN and hotmail address book. I also do not answer the phone when he calls, and he keeeeeeps calling!
2007-05-21, 11:38:07
anonymous from Australia  
just be careful if they want you to cash cheques for them , cause i had a 4 month relationship on the net , and they wanted me to cash a cheque at my bank, and it ended up being counterfiet, but in the time it was being processed the scameer tried to get me to wire money to them. lucky i didnt. And then they tried to tell me that that cheque had been swapped, as they had someone send it for them. But becos of this great site i finaaly put there picture up , and within a week i got comments. its so sad when you find out they had your heart and betrayed after all this time.
2007-05-28, 17:50:30
anonymous  
Yes Becker Anderson is definately a scammer, same letters, same photographs, luckily he didnt get any money out of me, but he could be convincing, he is a loser so please ladies turn him away , he needs to be stopped, this is what he does for a living, and the upset and damage he must cause to people who have been caught out by his conning scams we can only guess.
2007-11-09, 18:05:23
anonymous from Canada  
it appears that becker anderson is a busy guy - just met him yesterday on a dating site........his words were beautiful, but when we started chatting i felt like i was chatting with someone else........so i got suspicious and did a web search, and guess what there he was with all these other women that he had scammed...well have blocked him from contacting me and thankfully i knew that if he was too good to be true then he probably was. so ladies when you hear from a guy who sounds too good - check him out before you get too involved.
thank you to the others that were brave enough to post the info about becker.
You are on page 1 of 4, other pages: [1] 2 3 4

 

 

Are you being scammed and this is your first visit here?
Read the welcome page/ primer for newbies.
Thanks to Eddie for writing it up.

Please also read Miss Marple's article about recognizing male dating scammers.

NEW: Optional: Register   Login
Email address (not necessary):

Rate as
Hide my email when showing my comment.
Please notify me once a day about new comments on this topic.
Please provide a valid email address if you select this option, or post under a registered account.
 

Show city and country
Show country only
Hide my location
You can mark text as 'quoted' by putting [quote] .. [/quote] around it.
Please type in the code:

Please do not post inappropriate pictures. Inappropriate pictures include pictures of minors and nudity.
The owner of this web site reserves the right to delete such material.

photo Add a picture:
Picture Search

You have received photos and wonder if these photos has been posted here before? Because you suspect this could be a dating scammer, but you do not want to post this picture? Try the Picture Search