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Name: Becker Anderson


Email: realbecker1@aol.com // becker.anderson@hotmail.com


Address:
Local Western Union agent address as supplied to me by Becker:
24A Avocado dr,
Becker anderson
24A Avocado dr,
Ikeja
Lagos
Nigeria
23401



Other Comments:
I first came into contact with Becker on the http://www.friendsreuniteddating.co.uk on the 10/03/2007. His name on the site is Goldheartbecker. He has broken my heart, I thought he was the one for me after our constant emails & telephone calls to each other. His letters were so utterly romantic & now I have been duped - as this morning he told me he was starving hungry, had no money untill he got paid next week & could I send him some money via Western Union? This aroused my suspicions immediately & I pointed out to him directly that I believed him to be an internet dating site scammer, which he denied. Below is our MSN chat conversation which I saved to file.
Becker says:
Sweetie ....i feel sad here
Gina says:
DON'T BE SAD - WE SHOULD BE THE MOST HAPPIEST TWO PEOPLE IN THE WORLD!
Becker says:
Yes baby
Becker says:
but am having a lil problem here and i wish u can help me
Gina says:
i missed you last night soooooo much
Gina says:
....honey what is it? how can I HELP?
Becker says:
i missed u too
Becker says:
Sweetie could u believe i didn't eat here last night?
Becker says:
and this morning
Gina says:
WHY NOT?
Becker says:
u know i wont get paid untill am done with my contract here
Gina says:
so what do you want - money?
Becker says:
No baby
Becker says:
how do u thing u can help baby
Gina says:
by flying out to see you, be near you.... i don't know what would you want me to do?
Becker says:
weetie ...do u think u can help me with few bucks to get some fod here?
Becker says:
Gina says:
don't you have any savings? can't you ask your company for a sub?
Becker says:
Sweetie ..the company will be paying me when am done next week
Gina says:
You said you didn't want any money
Becker says:
Sweetie...not that i dont have any money
Becker says:
Aight...?
Becker says:
But its not much..and things here are expensive
Gina says:
so??........... buy yourself some food baby
Becker says:
Sweetie..its not much here...i used the last bucks on food last night
Becker says:
Sweetie are u there?
Gina says:
You know what? I thought this was too good to be true - now I AM SO HURT BECAUSE i think you are one of those internat dating scammers - there has been alot about that on the news lately. What do you take me for, some dumb person you could take for a ride? - shame on you Becker - if that's your real name. I fell in love with you for chrisets sake....
Becker says:
Sweetie am not asking u for ur money baby
Becker says:
I was trying to let u know that i also have money...but i cant get it here Lisa
Becker says:
hy do u have to make me feel this way??
Gina says:
Now I a gaping hole in my heart & don't feel I CAN TRUST YOU ANYMORE. yOU HAVE LEFT ME WITH ANWONDERFUL ILLUSION @ SHATTERED DREAMS OF WHAT WE COULD HAVE BEEN TOGETHER
Becker says:
Sweetie why are u making me feel this way?
Becker says:
DO u think am trying to get money from u or wht?
Gina says:
It's not that I want you to feel this way but yes that is how you have made me feel. I AM A VERY GENEROUS PERSON BUT YOU HAVE TO UNDERSTAND i have never met you in person..........
Becker says:
Yes i know baby
Becker says:
I do understand
Becker says:
Sweetie we have to deal with trust here till we meet
Becker says:
See my love....if we cant trust eachother now...Then when??
Gina says:
i know that but I am also a very cautious person when it comes to money. Of course I would like to trust you: your photos gave the insight that we are at least equal standing but this request from you has cast a huge doubt in my mind
Becker says:
Oh no baby
Becker says:
No
Gina says:
.....what about your work colleagues, maybe they could help?
Becker says:
well they all are greedy assholes
Becker says:
Sweetie...i have a company i worked for in Uk
Becker says:
Now now they are willing to pay me off baby
Gina says:
what is the name? & how long ago?
Becker says:
8months
Gina says:
surely they should have paid you before or soon after you left them?
Gina says:
what is the name of the company?
Becker says:
yes..but they had a lil problem then
Becker says:
So sweetie do u think i can trust u with this?
Gina says:
what is the name of the company?
Becker says:
Brixton Company
Gina says:
IT'S NOT ABOUT YOU TRUSTING ME AT THIS POINT, IT'S ABOUT ME TRUSTING YOU! - I don't believe that's a true company name - what type of business is it?
Becker says:
They run an international shipping
Gina says:
so what is the name of the company tou work for now?
Becker says:
EA TEXTILES
Gina says:
What type of business is it & what is your job title with them?
Becker says:
Its a textile company and i work as a Cpa Accountant
Gina says:
.... so an accountant with no money or access to it? why can't you access your bank accounnt baby? sorry to sound so cynical.
Becker says:
how do umean?
Becker says:
its a Uk check and i cant get it cash here
Gina says:
so how would I get money to you if that is what I decide?
Becker says:
Westernunion baby
Gina says:
Can't you ask you family, brother to post the money via western union?
Becker says:
U know baby
Becker says:
i told u about how i lostmy siblings
Becker says:
now u make me feel so sad again
Gina says:
what do I know honey?
Becker says:
u there?
Gina says:
You have never told me that - it is something I would remember. What you did say was that you were a & I quote: 'a son, brother parent ' etc........ how do you explain this?
Becker says:
Sweetie...i told u i lost my wife and kid in an auto accident 5 years ago when i was in germany and my dad died when i moved to the states
Becker says:

Gina says:
your profile says you are a widower but we have never discussed that part of your life.I'm sorry.
Becker says:
yes baby
Becker says:
but its okay
Becker says:

Gina says:
write something to me in German baby
Becker says:

Becker says:
like wht?
Gina says:
whatever you fell like saying to me!
Becker says:
ok
Becker says:
ich liebe u
Becker says:
do u know hwt that mean?
Gina says:
yes! more please?
Becker says:
Like?
Gina says:
a few sentences........about you
Becker says:
ok
Becker says:
ich wuchs in Deutschland. .and auf, das ich singles gewesen bin, nachdem ich meine Frau verlor und Sohn in einem Motor accident.now morgens glücklich ich u lisa fand
Gina says:
baby i'm crying because I feel I have been so horrible to you!
Becker says:
Baby,...it sokay
Becker says:
Just that u made me feel so sad and foolish here
Becker says:
May be u thought i was lying to u
Gina says:
Believe me I didn't want to make you feel that way
Becker says:

Gina says:
I'm honest & I have to admit I did
Becker says:
Its okay Darling
Gina says:
sorry, don't you have to be in work today?
Becker says:
No am off today

Becker says:
i love u so much my Darling Lisa
Gina says:
Have you read my mails yet?
Becker says:
yes..Daring
Becker says:
So sweetie...how do u feel u can help me
Gina says:
I can't & I feel so bad about that
Becker says:
no am not asking u for miney my love
Becker says:
I just want u to help me get my check from the company
Gina says:
sorry - what do you mean then?
Gina says:
How do I go about doing that?
Becker says:
i will just ask them to send it to u
Becker says:
then u can help me get the cash and wire it to me
Gina says:
& then what do i do with it?
Becker says:
u there??
Gina says:
yes baby
Becker says:
DO u understand now?
Gina says:
But it will be a chq made out in your name honey I can't cash or bank it for you
Gina says:
yes i understand
Becker says:
No..i will make them make it in ur name baby
Becker says:
iw ill tell them u are my fiancy
Gina says:
wow, you really trust me that much?
Becker says:
Sweetie...i have to..cos i want this to work out for is baby
Gina says:
.......the same goes for you my precious how can you be so sure about me? we have only known each other for a few days........
Becker says:
Yes baby
Becker says:
thats why we need trust and makes thsi work
Becker says:
I love u
Gina says:
ok, if that's what you want I will agree to do as you ask. Put the chq in the name of Gina ******* & send me the details of where to wire the money to.
Becker says:
okay
Becker says:
whts the address??
Gina says:
send me the details of where to wire the money to first.
Becker says:
Okay
Becker says:
Name...Becker anderson
Becker says:
addess....24A Avocado dr,
Becker says:
City....Ikeja
Becker says:
States.....Lagos
Becker says:
Country.......Nigeria
Becker says:
ZipCode....23401
Becker says:
did u get it?
Gina says:
yes
Becker says:
ok
Becker says:
So whts ur addresss??
Becker says:
where they will send it to baby
Gina says:
Gina *********
Gina says:
*******(work address)
Becker says:
post code
Becker says:
post code
Becker says:
post code and city
Becker says:
whats the post code?
Gina says:
I'm just getting it for you - i've forgotten it!
Becker says:
ok
Gina says:
city is **********
Becker says:
i have that already
Becker says:
i mean the post code
Becker says:
zip code
Gina says:
I know zip code means post code honey
Becker says:
so what is the post code honey?
Becker says:
every address has post code
Gina says:
scrap prvios addrees format, here is how you should write it:********
Becker says:
ok i got it
Gina says:
I don't have the need to use it every day!
Gina says:
good
Becker says:
ok honey
Becker says:
so, what do you have planned for the rest of the ay?
Becker says:
day?
Gina says:
are you smiling now?
Becker says:
yes honey
Gina says:
to stay on line with you & get to know you some more baby
Becker says:
ok honey
Becker says:
i need to go to the bathroom real quick
Becker says:
i will be back shortly

I then didn't here from him for about 1 1/2 hrs!

IS THIS MAN A SCAMMER? I SERIOUSLY HPOE NOT BUT I NEED TO KNOW - NOT JUST FOR MYSELF BUT FOR OTHER UNSUSPECTING HOPEFULS OUT THERE


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2007-12-17, 13:23:17
chiclet022002@hotmail.com from Springfield, United States  
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This exact man, Becker Anderson, tried to convince me to cash a check for him. He used the EXACT same crap on me as was written above between Gina and he almost verbatim. He did send me the check off of a verifiable company. But the check was bogus. If you do your research the company he works for is the largest producer of check paper. Gee how convenient.
DO NOT TRUST HIM. He tells people I stole money from him, but the check was fraudulent. I called the company and they specificed that no it was not a valid check and do not cash it.
Girls these idiots are becoming a plague on American women and it NEEDS TO STOP!
2007-12-17, 15:49:37
anonymous  
This person Becker Anderson is a scammer. I talked to this bastard for 8 months, all the checks that he sends aren't good. The company's that he says he works for don't exists. Please anyone that has or is having any contact with him.. LEAVE IT ALONE..Don't get burnt with this man as i did. He is a smooth talker and tells you all the things that a woman wants to hear, so he can benefit, put more money in his pocket. He knows he has a gold mine using the American women. We have to put a stop to him and people like him from using women. I recieved the same type of letters from him all kind of poems. When we were chating he makes you feel as though you are in a fantasy world or that you are dreaming, cos of his words and emotion that at the time you feel he is using. Please don't get caught up in this web of deceet. I was scammed by this bastard. But I will overcome and have learned some lessons from this. He also at the time we were talking was posing to be a female talking to some of the guys that i talked to in the states. I also created other IM addresses and talked to him while he was posing to be a female. He was using the same kind of tatics on there also. He doesn't care if you are male or female as long as he gets what he wants. He has no conscious. He also don't except the word NO.. I was told numerous times that I could never get away from him. He also would call numerous times a day, he had no regards to what time of day. If he does try to have contact with anyone..PLEASE don't except any of his contacts..BLOCK HIM.. Report him to authorities make reports, get in touch with local Senators and Representatives as I did.. Hopefully one day we can see him and other scammers put behind bars.....
2007-12-17, 17:08:41
anonymous  
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this nut also uses becker.anderson@yahoo.com.... i hope and pray that any other woman that looks at this site or any others posted like Judy's book leave this no good for anything alone. He isn't worth the time of day.
2008-03-01, 22:02:59
anonymous from Vancouver, United States  
ladies and guys too these scammers are both, if ever you find a profile suspicous to say I love you so early stop! fast its not real and mostly if its where they say they are from out of state, stick to your own state and get local numbers to call to verify, If you should ask for a number to call them and it starts with 011-????? its international and that a scammer in any event or time on the internet they ask for money ,or for you to cash checks, send western unions, they are scammers, if they have time on the internet they have money the internatioal creeps doing this ruin it for the real ones over there so dont believe it and hurt your heart of a lost love feeling. I am saying this because I too was scammed for my first time doing the internet search for a man I went against my wishes of self concious to believe this man in New York with all his problems my family was aware of what he was doing I did not want to believe them I was in love I was SCAMMED BIG TIME I felt as if I was to this day stabed and then burn in the heart. Its been seven months since then I prayed to be thankfull I have my family ,home and job yet I learned the hard way saved yourself now believe me please!!!!if your smart stay with in your own city of your state there are more then you think out there might not show up all at once but in time it took me three years to this day I have found a wonderful man he came to me hes only eight blocks away we are going on three months now of happiness it can and will happen for you too! Be careful always friends.
Sonja,
2008-04-08, 00:26:03
anonymous from Australia  
He just sent me an email after one email via RSVP - this is what I got which to me felt like a straight copy and paste. This guy is a scammer for sure - one word NARCASSIST

I guess u can read this...LOL.well will like to tell u more about me ...I am a 48 yr old, male. 6'1, 176lbs with model looks, average body build, no drama and a positive outlook on life.
I am young at heart with fun dreams and a big heart...as easy to get along with as you'll find. ,i am an active listener and will always try to bring mindfulness and awareness to my existence
Take a look at who I am and what I seek. If you like me, message me and i'll see if you connect with my look.
I was born in the Detroit,Mi .but i left the There when i was 3 years with my dad and move to Germeny but now ,i just moved to Perth AU few months ago, the tropics or ocean into my future again permanently. I do not frequent bars unless good live music is playing as I love to dance. I laugh when tickled and will tickle back; enjoy giving/receiving massages, and brushing your hair. I am professionally employed, affable, sensitive, dislike drama, a quiet confidence, musical(guitar, but lousy singer), artistic(pottery, but will keep my day job for now), erotic-minded, athletic, lean, an awesome kisser(it is an art), long arms that can reach anywhere, supportive, dependable, industrious, goofy at times, creative, thoughtful, passionate, unprentious, pragmatic, unassuming, unpossesive and humorous on closer inspection.
Me: I am a confident, articulate, educated, successful professional that is seeking the exceptional partner.
Athletic, Adventurous, and Romantic individual that enjoys: working out, music, movies, laughter, dining out, clubbing (occasionally) and spontaneous travel. Or, join me in the Garden and have a glass of wine while I clean up and we'll share deep stimulating conversation. Further exploring the mental chemistry between us.
A relationship that ends up where it's supposed to is what I seek. If that's a serious relationship, good friends or great lovers, I am prepared for the next encounter life has to offer me.
Seeking a confident, expressive, attractive, truthful, independant, stable, health-conscious woman who understands how precious it is to find her best friend, companion, lover and partner all in the same person. Some call this a 'soulmate' A woman who can be trusting, and is drama free..meaning I don't care much about the past, nor fret about the future..be secure in who you are...you should know about living in the present, it shouldn't be hard for you to describe yourself...you like to be touched and are not afraid to ask. We are positive, supportive, secure, giving and outwardly affectionate toward each other. We are sincere and live in the present with intent toward passion, trust, laughter and are in it for the long haul. I am a giver looking for a giver. Looking for spiritual, emotional, intellectual and physical connections with one woman
A friendship that is uninhibited and pure fun is what i'm about. Locations, settings and chemistry that will arouse all your senses and moments shared that cross your mind a week later while at the office. Putting a smile on your face while wondering when it's possible to feel like that again is the sensation I aim to leave you with.
I want a woman that I can trust without question and who can trust me the same. A woman whose loves me for my heart and soul. We would be like two vases of water poured into one larger more beautiful vase, in which we would be one. Holding each other, breathing each other, tasting each other as we watch the sun rise and set in each others arms. Laughing, crying, singing, praying, playing, working together to make life fun and safe for each other. I have not found that yet, but I am eternally hopeful. Maybe I am just a helpless romantic, handsome man but hope is what gets us out of bed each morning to face the day.
Been there, seen it and know better. I have no physical or mental baggage and strive everyday to be a better man for myself. Karma, Kindness, Family, Loyalty and Honesty are important realities in my lifestyle.
If we are meant to be, even geography couldn't keep us apart.
Currently, I am in Dubai (UAE) for my Job here...and would be going back to the Australia soon.
Hope to hear from you.
Becker
2008-04-27, 21:27:09
anonymous  
Becker Anderson,
is on true .com now same pictures.
He is sending me a ring so we can get married.
He also is sending me his sperm so i can go to the drs. He wants me to have his baby.
Now some stole his wallet and he needs money.He wants me to fax over all my bank acct info to him and all this just happened 4/20/2008 So i guess he is still playing.
2008-04-29, 15:15:55   (updated: 2008-04-29, 15:16:34)
anonymous from United States  
if anyone would like to talk to becker anderson here is his new number1-337-304-3026
go for it ladies
2008-05-16, 19:46:01
anonymous from United States  
BECKER ANDERSON ALSO GOES BY JONES EVANS
2008-06-05, 05:46:36
anonymous from United States  
I too have been contacted by Becker Anderson,, from a Christian dating site ChristianCAfe.com. He has not yet asked for money,, but told me he was on contract out of the US, but has a home here. I blocked him as soon as he told me he was not in the US, have seen this scam before.
2008-06-20, 11:07:59
anonymous  
becker is a good man....stop saying all this
2008-06-29, 10:57:23
anonymous from Chugiak, United States  
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Well, ladies, I am next patsy in the Becker scam. He contacted me 2 weeks ago from ChristianCafe as well. I was wary of him and he sounded too good to be true, ao I am glad to find out before things progress too far. My Im's are almost verbatim to some on here, except he has a home in Tennesee, not Australia, and he is working in Dubais on contract. Its unfortunate that people are this nutty, to scam honest women, or attempt to. Well, you live and you learn. . .
2008-12-19, 01:02:27
anonymous  
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Ok listen here! you women are all crazy i have been talk in to becker for awhile now and yes these are his pictures.. I have met with him a good bit over the past 2 years. We are to be getting married soon. I am planning the weddin right now, I too met him off of a dating site but he is real he is who he says and he is the most wonderful man in the world. He is though currently back in nigeria doing more work but comes home often when he has a chance. Is on a plane now to come home for christmas so i do not know why he would have lied to u ladies. But to me he is wonderful!

beckers wife
Sharon Anderson
his Queen
2008-12-19, 01:02:28
anonymous  
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Ok listen here! you women are all crazy i have been talk in to becker for awhile now and yes these are his pictures.. I have met with him a good bit over the past 2 years. We are to be getting married soon. I am planning the weddin right now, I too met him off of a dating site but he is real he is who he says and he is the most wonderful man in the world. He is though currently back in nigeria doing more work but comes home often when he has a chance. Is on a plane now to come home for christmas so i do not know why he would have lied to u ladies. But to me he is wonderful!

beckers wife
Sharon Anderson
his Queen
2008-12-19, 01:02:28
anonymous  
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Ok listen here! you women are all crazy i have been talk in to becker for awhile now and yes these are his pictures.. I have met with him a good bit over the past 2 years. We are to be getting married soon. I am planning the weddin right now, I too met him off of a dating site but he is real he is who he says and he is the most wonderful man in the world. He is though currently back in nigeria doing more work but comes home often when he has a chance. Is on a plane now to come home for christmas so i do not know why he would have lied to u ladies. But to me he is wonderful!

beckers wife
Sharon Anderson
his Queen
2008-12-19, 01:14:51
anonymous  
Ok listen here! you women are all crazy i have been talk in to becker for awhile now and yes these are his pictures.. I have met with him a good bit over the past 2 years. We are to be getting married soon. I am planning the weddin right now, I too met him off of a dating site but he is real he is who he says and he is the most wonderful man in the world. He is though currently back in nigeria doing more work but comes home often when he has a chance. Is on a plane now to come home for christmas so i do not know why he would have lied to u ladies. But to me he is wonderful!

beckers wife
Sharon Anderson
his Queen
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