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Claims to be a nurse from Durban, South Africa who is a 'humanitarian' with USAID and ACCORD. She has worked in Kenya, Rwanda, Liberia & now in the Bakassi peninsula. Her storyline used places that I know well and I knew immediately something was off!

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2008-04-02, 18:37:26   (updated: )
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2008-04-03, 01:34:03
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Another thing she said was that two weeks before her wedding, her ex wanted her to change her religion!!! With her looks, any normal male would have changed HIS own entire history. Anyway, I was lucky to find out sooner than later. I guess another thing which threw her off was that I wanted to give up my job here and volunteer with her!!!

Ahh, it was good while it lasted. My only expense was the phone bill. She called me too: twice a day!
2008-04-03, 13:17:53
anonymous from United States  
I hope this will be helpful to others. Here are some sample e-mails 7 I will post more later.

Notice how some crucial questions are avoi.

hi sweetheart,
how are you this morning and i'm sure you're refreshed for a lovely day . baby would you try and manage the bad communications through phone or would it be better if i forget about the phone while we relate on mails till i can afford another SAT phone.

you were asking me the make of my lap top when the line cut off . its a HP product , pentium M. it would have been easy for me scanning pics and so many other things on it. most of my pics are in the lap top and definitely so many other important stuffs.
i'm kinda depressed these morning and dont know why, sweetie

i'm a contract staff while with USAID on AIDS in kenya before moving to the environmental dept , and then humanitarian before conecting the south African NGO ACCORD. I'm on contract basis and in both organisation's pay roll but presently work almost directly with ACCORD. its not really much pay anyway dont tell me you've forgotten about all i told u about myself? baby thats not a good feeling anyway.

my mum was irish and my dad's from durban. relocated to durban 10yrs ago .my masters in nursing science was at ciskei's nursing college , cambridge capetown. i have a step sister and step brother. they are all in durban presently.

i'm off to work now,ok
i almost forgot, ............ plane tickets! do you want to fly me to you?

hope to hear from you later in the .
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************ The above is in reply to my e-mail below ****************

Hi sweetie,

It was lovely talking with you. I'm sorry that the phone connections are not very clear & half the time I miss what you say!

Now sweetie, remind me again, where you grew up and went to school? This way I can program my brain to pick up quickly what you say!

I'm glad that you had a better day today. You need to send me new pics from your field work. I will like to see what conditions & surroundings you live & work in.

I had a good day today. I had lunch with my new boss & then took the required drug test. My job requires absolutely no use of illegal drugs! :)

Since the phone lines are bad, tell me more about yourself!
How big is your new place? It will be lovely to have a pic of your new place so when I talk with you on the phone, I can picture you in my mind! :)

I keep forgetting to ask you, but what is the prognosis about your father's condition? I sure hope & pray that it is localized & under control now.

Since I'm looking at various plane tickets, when you flew to London last week, which airline did you use?

I know these are a lot of questions, but with bad phone lines, this is the only way to know more about eaother!


--------------------- Tola Marsha <> wrote: ------------------------------

hi sweetie,
i hope your day has been lovely . got back not too long and was rather easy getting in touch with camerounian soldiers today. they didnt want to listen to us until we started giving them flyers of our NGO and other stuffs before they could give us audience, but their stand remains the same on the militants. thats not a surprise but they are now aware that there are people that are concerned about them and they arent nigerians but representing the whole of africa.

i dont think i ever told you the name of our organisation! well, its called ACCORD(african center for the constructive resolution of disputes)

what have you been doing today sweetie?
missed your mail and would be expecting yocall
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******** Stupid me starting to fall head-over-heels for 'her' *********************

As much I love hearing your voice on the phone, I also hate these darn phone connections! The connection is bad and drops at the crucial moment!

You said something 'what I think about you?' and something about 'compatibility,' right? I was replying to that but then the line got disconnected.

I know this will sound crazy to you, but you have been on my mind ALL day. I couldn't concentrate on anything else. I wish I were with you. Several times I thought about winding up things here & start following you around the globe! :)

This is absolutely crazy as I have never felt like this before since I am a very cautious, practical & logical person. At least, I like to think that I am! :)

I am going to shut up now & go to sleep .

2008-04-04, 00:41:06
anonymous from United States  
I almost forgot, there is also a UK number used to legitimize the so-called overseas trip. Of course, you can never get through and there is always an excuse!

The number is 011-44-703-190-3583
2008-12-02, 16:57:20
anonymous from Australia  
ahh,motola..yes she loves me too.going to fly to austraila to be with me but needs a little help with money.she spent near 6 mths talking with me,so she does take her time.yes very much the same story a little different.from holland,dads dying.

2008-12-02, 17:00:35
anonymous from Australia  
the many faces,so beautiful but deadly

2008-12-02, 17:16:23
mark from Brisbane, Australia  
y would u not love her?




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