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Name: Marina



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using X-Mailer: The Bat! (v4.0.14) Professional from a girlfriend's computer and not answering my questions:

her 2nd letter
Hello my new friend Ralf!!!!!
I am glad to receive your letter. Ralf I thought of that you will write to me or will not write and looked forward your letter. And I am glad when have received it. I the first time get acquainted on the Internet, I looked on profile which to me a distance at a site of acquaintances both have seen you. Also has decided to write to you. I hope that you have understood my first message.
Ralf, my name is Marina. To me of 25 years, I was never married. At me normal character, I live in mum in apartment. My city is called Kirov. It in The Kirov area. Except mum, the grandmother and the girlfriend I was not present close people. The father I never saw also mother speaks of nothing about it.
Ralf as whom you work? I work in cafe as the waiter. I love the work. I do not know what to tell about myself. Ralf you can tell about yourself more? I wish to know much about you. Why you have solved gets acquainted in the Internet? What do you search in the girl? What character at you? How you like to have a rest?
I with pleasure will answer your questions. Ask also I will tell about itself. I simply do not know what to tell. What it is interesting to you? Ralf I hope that you will write to me tomorrow.
I hope that tomorrow I will come to the girlfriend and I will receive your letter and your new photo. You will send them to me? I will wait.
Your new girlfriend Marina.

reply to 1st letter
Hello Marina,
thank you for your letter. It was nice to receive your letter and your photo.
It is not so difficult to start acquaintance. Just tell me more about you, e.g.,
when is your birthday, where are you from, etc. For more, do you have your
own computer, or do you use the internet cafe?
Hope to hear from you soon,

her 1st letter
Hello Ralf, I am glad, that you have written to me. I very much waited for your letter.
I do not know how to begin acquaintance and that about myself to tell.
But I think, that we can learn one about other much, and ours dialogue will be pleasant.
I would like, that you would send more than the photos and answered my questions sincerely.
I love sincerity and the truth. What it would not be. I will look forward your letter.
Your new acquaintance Marina.


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2008-10-22, 16:22:03   (updated: )
[hidden] from Germany  

2008-10-22, 16:22:03   (updated: )
[hidden] from Germany  

2008-10-27, 15:56:52
Amandio from Rio De Janeiro, Brazil  
Hi Ralf,
I would like to suggest that at least you take a little more time to decide whether the 'girl' is a scammer. I understand that we get really ungry but as well we have to find a way to avoid a mistake if serious intentions are present.
It is quite difficult to understand her but she told you her age and she said that she had to go to her friend's to write to you - answered you partially. Thus it could be somebody trying to know you.
Ok, using THE BAT is a sign but not all.
In her letter you have other alerts!!!
I the first time get acquainted on the Internet
To me of 25 years
and I will receive your letter and your new photo
She said she was from Kirov. Did you check her IP?

Probably a scammer but for me not for sure.
2008-10-27, 17:49:13
OJAS from United States  
More criteria:
First letter signed as Your new acquaintance Marina.
Second letter Your new girlfriend Marina.

From now on it will be KLM (Kisses, Love, then Money letter)

Scammers usually do not read mails before the money letter http://www.delphifa..=13#39806
How can they, with over 300 lovers everyday? http://www.datingnm..erate.htm
Are you better than the other 299? http://www.delphifa..?p=3#58164
2008-10-28, 07:38:33
Amandio from Rio De Janeiro, Brazil  
Is this criteria for me or for the German?
2008-10-28, 09:16:09
Dirk from Heerlen, Netherlands  
2008-10-28, 10:35:21
OJAS from United States  
Amandio, it is for neither of you, since you both know these. I have seen Ralf often post here. I mean to draw attention to interested newbies, since some of them may miss what to look for.
2008-10-29, 10:43:55
anonymous from Brazil  
2008-12-14, 00:05:31 from United States  
So I join a international website and after a few days, I get this email from a person. After about 2 or 3 emails when 'she' emails me her picture. I'm thinking, there is something odd about this girl. I talk to my friends about her and they notify me of the scams that go on. It clicked because it made perfect sense. But here's the crazy part.

I did the google searches for her email, her name and dating websites, which is how I found her on this. I found her picture on two more websites. A couple new pictures she has not sent to me. Well let me start off and say after the 2 months she's been emailing me, I've tried to initiate the 'oh btw, do you need money' conversation a couple times. Every time she emails me, 2 things are clear: her English is horrible. and she doesn't seem to respond to questions.
I thought ok, to seem like a legit scammer, perhaps having bad English grammar will prove. But even so, some e-mails are completely horrible I can't understand a thing. Which would be pointless if your trying to scam someone. And during the first few emails when I had no idea about Russian scammers, I asked her multiple questions and she didn't seem to respond to any. But afterwards I asked if she would like to meet sometime soon. She responded with why would i want to meet someone I just met? She didn't' exactly say it like that, but that's the jist of it.

But I'm not completely satisfied though. So every email, I send a picture or two of myself and talk as romantic as I can get in a email, which in my case it turns out I'm not very articulate! From the first conversation, it's been nearly 2 months. Finally she just has the 'i wanna visit you' email. She says it's because of money situation, and that I should visit her. I don't see how a scammer could benefit from having a guy come visit her. However there is the Russian law I googled recently. Basically if she is who she is, there is no way for her to get a passport and leave the country. But a guy can visit, then get married and she move to another country, which is also possible that's the case. Out of all of the pictures she sent, non of them have been sexual, or revealing to appeal to the tempting and desperate men. Granted, it look like your typical chick in nice clothing, but nothing revealing.

Only reason I have no stopped talking to her is because I'm completely interested in finally getting. I LOVE YOU, but i also have a business proposition message, one day. hahaha

Anyways if I had to jump on one side of the fence, I lean towards her being a scammer, one way or another. Girls who look like her, will always have options when it comes to dating. So her finding her true love isn't going to happen on the internet.

And from what I have experienced, scammers work quick, it's usually the 2nd email and money is already mentioned. And in my friends case, he said on messenger, it took 'her' about 2 hours before she mentioned money.

2009-06-05, 19:39:48
anonymous from New Zealand  
Definately a scam same as justforforums said, she don't answer specific questions you ask her. Then she uses shotty english as an excuse, Then the money talk comes in. Funny thing is, only then can she fit grammatically correct sentences. Prob some made up name and some dude who somehow got photos of some poor girl and used it to lure the lads in. Might even be some genetically engineered monkey on the other side of the scam lol. But definately a scam.

2009-06-05, 19:40:58
anonymous from New Zealand  

2009-06-05, 19:42:00
anonymous from New Zealand  
And another one

2009-06-05, 19:46:50
anonymous from New Zealand  
Actually i have a few photos this scammer sent. And allota emails too. All you gotta say to prove my point is say something like..... 'Send me a photo with you holding up a piece of paper with my name wriiten on it' She won't do it. Cos she's global emailing everyone and tryna filter out unsuspected guys pockects. Trust me she'll never answer a specific question you ask her.

2009-06-05, 19:48:23
anonymous from New Zealand  
And one more to show that i'm not making this up....

2010-01-19, 19:58:21
anonymous from United States  
'well i got this e-mail from her,, her name now is Ekaterina Kornilova from Tuzha,Kirov, She start to love me in less that 2 week, suddenly start to make plan to come to me, I responded that I do not care what she has to do but she won't get a penny from me, she has to make all the trip by her owm, once that she got here I can take care of her, here is the e-mail:Hello xxxx, My dear friend!xxxx I do not know why, but many my friends speak that I havechanged. Has changed in that sense that in my opinion there was anaspiration to live and him is well simple from that that they see myhappy face. Mum, the girlfriend, and on work of the colleague speak meit! And you? What to you speak? xxxx tell to me???I so am glad that you to send me your photo. I like to look at yourphoto and I start to dream of you. Many thanks for your photo I shallbe glad if you will send more to me your photo. I wish to tell to you why at me today good mood. I have woken up, havemade a breakfast and have gone for work. On work too all is good.There were no harmful patients. Everyone understand and it was notcomplex. From work I could leave earlier. And I at once have gone tothe Internet of cafe.xxxx I so am glad that have received yourletter now. I do not know why but I to remember this day on long. xxxx And what has happened in your day? What did you do? At you allturned out? I hope what yes. I so would like that you smiled, that youwould have a good mood. That all at you would turn out. I think thatit will be fine if will be so. How you think? I am assured what yes. I send you the photo which I have made at home.I wait for your letter. xxxx I already miss....You like me..... I think of you.... And it pleases my heart.Always thinking of you Ekaterina

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