IM Jul 6, 2014 6:12:22 PM
s s: hello
newheaven18055: How are you doing
s s: I am blessed and highly favored and you?
newheaven18055: same here also..
s s: Good why you look so serious in your picture?
newheaven18055: That me for you
s s: oh really
newheaven18055: Yeah so can we chat more bette right now?
s s: Please explain why yahoo messenger is better? Enquiring minds want to know.
newheaven18055: very fast to chat
s s: Oic~~~How long you been divorced?
s s: so can you voice chat on here
newheaven18055: My laptp speaker is somehow working but you can call if you want to
s s: are you able to speak through your laptop?
s s: ok let me try to see if I can do this.
s s: I am calling you
s s: I am calling you hello are you here
newheaven18055: Can you call again
s s: ok
Outgoing Voice call with newheaven18055 ( 6:07:53 PM)
Call Ended: 0 hours 2 minutes 30 seconds
s s: calling back
Outgoing Voice call with newheaven18055 ( 6:10:55 PM)
Call Ended: 0 hours 0 minutes 8 seconds
newheaven18055: I accept that and i get kick out
s s: ok well that's not good
s s: you try calling me
Voice Call Jul 6, 2014 6:24:56 PM
Outgoing Voice call with newheaven18055 ( 6:11:35 PM)
Call Ended: 0 hours 0 minutes 24 seconds
newheaven18055: It going to do the same thing
s s: you mean if you try to call me
s s: so you not connecting through a microphone headset
s s: So if you in Nigeria does your cell phone work over there?
newheaven18055: Yeah texting only cant call Long distance
newheaven18055: so sorry about that
s s: well this is probably why you keeping getting knocked offline
newheaven18055: Do you have long distance call
s s: yes
s s: unlimited
newheaven18055: Then can you call a Nigeria Number?
s s: nope no international
newheaven18055: Oh i see
s s: that's why I was video calling
s s: I mean PC to PC
s s: it is a free call
s s: you have a cell phone with a Nigeria number
newheaven18055: Where are you from and what do you do for a living, How old are you and do you have kids??
s s: So you didn't read the profile on blackpeoplemeet.com
newheaven18055: I did but want everything fresh and see where it lead us too
s s: ok Mister
s s: I am from Chicago i have grown kids
s s: I have 5 grandkids
IM Jul 6, 2014 6:43:05 PM
s s: work I enjoy the purpose of living
s s: I work parttime and go to school fulltime
newheaven18055: Ok cool
newheaven18055: so what are you doing right now
I am preparing my life for retirement of punching someone’s else clock
newheaven18055: Ok cool
newheaven18055: can we chat more better now
s s: yes what about yourself?
s s: you don't have to tell me you don’t have any kids anymore
s s: i read that three times already
newheaven18055: What are you looking for on that site?
s s: oh which site.
s s: I am looking for a husband..
newheaven18055: Wowowo same here also a wife
s s: but seems like all I do is look at pictures and get crazy messages from men on that site.
s s: You are looking for a wife on BPM.. God bless your soul
s s: So many women to choose
newheaven18055: Ok...I'm a fun and caring person who is motivated and successful. Although work can be demanding, understand that the woman has the highest priority, I like to find the good in people, although I am somewhat reserved with my emotions. I open up more as trust is built. Friends I make are typically friends for life
s s: so how is the wife searching going?
newheaven18055: I am very personable, easy to get along with, and despite my profession and natural practicality, I am laid back and tend to go with the flow. I'm good with animals, and I enjoy being around positive people. I am fiercely loyal to my the people that are close to me, and charitable to those less fortunate than I...
s s: Oh wow... That is good to hear..
s s: except I dont care too much for animals because of allergies.
newheaven18055: I am an Easygoing man who Loves to make People Around me Happy..I am also the Shy Type but get Warm when i'm Around the right Person...I need a Drama free and Committed Relationship.She Must be Easygoing, lovely, Beautiful , God fearing and Lovely... I'm a very appreciative positive person, down to earth and live each day to the fullest. I absolutely refuse to take things for granted.
s s: I feel you!!.. Time is valuable..
newheaven18055: I love to give and help others the best way that I can. . I have a great sense of humor and easily laugh. I am a very sexual, sensual and affectionate person. Lots of hugs, kisses, touching etc. I love the great outdoors. I like sports, travel, music, dining out or in, the beach or the mountains; I guess I'm comfortable any where. Love is a big part of who i am. I mean i am a very loving affectionate man.
IM Jul 6, 2014 6:49:26 PM
s s: Hmmmm!! I just don’t understand how come you still single
s s: Can you help me?
s s: hello are you still here.. I thought you told me this was faster
IM Jul 6, 2014 7:18:21 PM
newheaven18055: I got booted
IM Jul 6, 2014 8:01:24 PM
s s: hello I am back
newheaven18055: Do you have a webcam
s s: nope sorry
s s: do you/
newheaven18055: Nope so can we continue now getting to kow each other more better]
s s: sure not a problem
s s: but the only way we can get close is through texting
s s: so i guess i have to wait for 3-4 weeks until you back on US soil
newheaven18055: Can you Imagine a man who is very playful, animated/expressive and young-at-heart as one side of his personality, which includes being silly, cheesy, romantic and singing to you. This is the boy side. The other side is very serious -- sort of Jason Bourne meets Donald Trump. That's the achiever side in me - the man side.
s s: I sure can imagine that..
s s: If you don’t think this way of you no one else will
s s: I still have to go back to my previous question>>>>Hmmmm!! I just don’t understand how come you still single
newheaven18055: Yeah because i havent find the right woman for my self i dont want to get hurt
s s: So is that creating a block for you? being hurt.
newheaven18055: I have been hurt so much in the part so am scared of getting hurt again now this is the last time am going to do this trust me
newheaven18055: Ok am listening to you
s s: you only 49
s s: Have you forgiven the people or person whom has hurt you?
s s: Let me explain to you about being scared
IM Jul 6, 2014 8:11:06 PM
s s: The bible tells us the thing we fear the most will come unto us.
s s: you are planting seeds in your own life
s s: words have power.
newheaven18055: I know and i understand you
s s: Your fear of trust and loving again will be bounded
s s: You are setting the occurrences in your life.
s s: in other words you are setting yourself up to be hurt again because this is what you fear
newheaven18055: I just want to do this for the last time that all
s s: keep repeating I been hurt so many times and you will keep adding incidents
newheaven18055: I know
newheaven18055: I love your sense of humor
s s: thank you but i speak truth
newheaven18055: Can we get to know more about each othe right now
newheaven18055: Yeah he can be me can i share more with you right now
s s: sure share away
s s: let me ask you one question?
s s: Do you know and understand as a man what your purpose is in this life?
s s: please share your comment
newheaven18055: My purpose right now is to find my partner and make hr happy forever spending the rest of my life with my woman is my goal
IM Jul 6, 2014 8:25:37 PM
s s: Ok and the future purpose.
newheaven18055: Grow old together and make sure she's happy till the end of time
s s: Sounds good for the wife
s s: but what is your God given purpose
newheaven18055: Yeah you're right
newheaven18055: Can i tell you more about myself
s s: Please enquiring minds would like to know everything
newheaven18055: I'm a fun and caring person who is motivated and successful. Although work can be demanding, understand that the woman has the highest priority, I like to find the good in people, although I am somewhat reserved with my emotions. I open up more as trust is built. Friends I make are typically friends for life...I am very personable, easy to get along with, and despite my profession and natural practicality, I am laid back and tend to go with the flow. I'm good with animals, and I enjoy being around positive people. I am fiercely loyal to my the people that are close to me, and charitable to those less fortunate than I....
s s: ok so you sound like a bot
s s: or you either a Nigeria and your conversation in English is very limited
s s: so which one are you.
s s: really I will see in 3-4 weeks are will you be texting later and said I am going to be stuck in Nigeria for another month
s s: been there and have done this too.
newheaven18055: Oh i se never ever
s s: why are you typing the same thing over and over again about motivational and successful
s s: newheaven18055: I'm a fun and caring person who is motivated and successful. Although work can be demanding, understand that the woman has the highest priority, I like to find the good in people, although I am somewhat reserved with my emotions. I open up more as trust is built. Friends I make are typically friends for life...I am very personable, easy to get along with, and despite my profession and natural practicality, I am laid back and tend to go with the flow. I'm good with animals, and I enjoy being around positive people. I am fiercely loyal to my the people that are close to me, and charitable to those less fortunate than I
newheaven18055: Just want to make sure everything is clear too you because i got booted that why am starting all over again
s s: Don't repeat it.. I am saving the conversation
s s: so no information was lost
s s: I like saving info it is always good to go back and reference what people say in case we connect face to face.
s s: Got it .. I clearly understand who you are and what you are looking for.
s s: Now my question to you.. How can we make this happen
IM Jul 6, 2014 8:49:58 PM
newheaven18055: I'm really looking for Someone Honest, Caring, Romantic, Kind, Posses Great Sense of Humor, Loyal, gentle, cheerful, Has the fear of God in hear life,responsible,someone that still believes in true love, Affectionate, Passionate, Understanding, Intelligent, Respectful and Trust Worthy..
newheaven18055: Yeah you're right and agree with you,A woman that would take me as her husband also looking for a woman to support my job financially Help in everything i do...It would be nice to meet an independent, outgoing and family oriented Lady that likes to enjoy life and keep it real. I think it would be great to be able to have great conversation over a nice Pasta and a glass of Coke.
s s: I do love pasta
newheaven18055: I cleaning and working in the yard. I also like the Beach, Lake and Mountains and I am at a point in my life where I can go shopping with my best friend, carry the bags and not think about how long it will be before I get back in the House.
s s: a woman to support my job financially <<< please explain this statement to me.
newheaven18055: I mean my woman will always be there for me when i need her the most and she will always support me in everything i do and never let me down am going to do the same thing for her
s s: ok thanks for the explanation
newheaven18055: I am Seeking a very Long Term Relationship and seeking Someone special to capture my heart and knows how to handle it with care, one who will cherish me and be willing to share life's greatest joys and sorrows with. Someone who's willing to spoil, pamper and be love unconditionally, whom is kind, sincere, honest, passionate, loyal, sense of humor, loving and wants a lifetime partner.
s s: Ok got it..
newheaven18055: You are confident enough to give 100% of who you are. no lies, no secrets. not content, and always seeking to improve. you would do what you can to take my breath away on a regular basis and at the end of the day, you will agree I'm worth it....I am looking for a woman who is optomistic and enjoys doing new things together with her man.
s s: How can we make this happen?
newheaven18055: We would make it happen we should just stay focus and never let each other go always stand by each other and a ready to make the whoel world jealous because of you
s s: who cares about the whole world being jealous
s s: You asking for alot but are you ready to receive this.. People ask for things then when it is put before them they cannot handle it.
newheaven18055: I enjoy life and enjoy having fun! I consider myself to be a caring and loving person that wants to share it with others. I am looking for someone who can be my best friend and share life adventrures! I desire someone who is honest about themselves and loves honesty. I am tired of the lonely life and want someone who is looking for a good honest loving and caring man as that is what I have to offer that someone special ..Lol
s s: I feel you and hear you.
newheaven18055: Sure you can
s s: well Thank you. now what is your real name
newheaven18055: Jeff Williams Harrington..
newheaven18055: It my pleasure
IM Jul 6, 2014 9:10:47 PM
s s: I wish we could chat over the phone
s s: but I am going to patiently wait until you return
newheaven18055: I am looking for attractive woman that is strong-minded, but down to earth. That can dress up or down given the situation. It is important that she be grounded in way that can deal with life's changes maturely and responsibly. Obviously, I am very sexually driven and can perform amazingly in bed that for sure. I am looking for someone who enjoy a lot of intimate time. However, there is plenty of time to go there later. We can be friends first and take it from there.
newheaven18055: I want a woman who knows herself well and desires to know herself completely. She must know what she wants and naturally wishes for more. This will inspire me. I LOVE ANYTHING REFINED and POLISHED. I'm looking for a confident woman. Classy. Elegent. Strong. Beautiful. Happy. I need a woman who understands me and my desires. I also need a woman who wants me to know her in every way imaginable...
s s: Know thyself first
s s: I can relate to this... A woman with no confidence is like a man with no teeth.
newheaven18055: I would love someone who is fun to be around,likes to laugh,joke around,enjoy being outdoors going for long romantic walks,enjoys looking at the stars at night and watching the sun set and rise over the ocean...I am looking for someone that enjoys the simple things in life,just as I do.
s s: Jeff you can trust me I am taking notes and saving all you have stated for future reference
newheaven18055: Better..I would like to meet someone special that I can grow old with and that we can always look into each others eyes and know that the love between us is just as wonderful and exciting as the day we met. That good to know npe i will never meltdown baby..
s s: LOL...oic...Good I hate a phony man
s s: so what is the time frame in Nigeria
newheaven18055: I want to love a woman for who she is, to spoil her, and love her, and let her know just how much she means to me, by the little things I do or say to make her feel special. while at the same time she treats me in the same way with love and respect....I’m searching for my life long partner to share a Great Life of Love with romance, long slow kisses, feeling very special, intimacy, spirituality, pleasurable communication, dancing, meeting of the minds, opening a door for you, flowers, traveling and other exciting interests and adventures, A GREAT LIFE of LOVE!
s s: Yes you said the ultimate word'A Great Life of Love.
newheaven18055: I am one who strongly believes in respect and that without respect, you can’t experience true love and generate a healthy relationship. I believe in a smaller “wow” when it is first a friendship and then a larger “Wow” later as it evolves into a Beautiful Loving committed relationship. I believe it’s not just what you are like on the outside, but more about what you are like on the inside. I’m seeking friendship first, (no game playing please) with someone who appreciates some of the same temperaments and interests I enjoy. for sure i can love forever
s s: This is the type man a woman needssssss...
s s: Hallejuer!!!
s s: Well Mr. Jeff I am an action person.. I am also from the state of Arizona<<show me>>
s s: I believe words are impacted by the action
newheaven18055: That special someone is a woman with integrity, is spiritually compatible with me, having similar beliefs - and is responsible, intelligent, has a sense of humour, positive, is clean and neat in habit and appearance, romantic, passionate about living and loving. I would prefer that someone to show interest and be supportive of my spiritual work. she should be financially secure, and has 'been there, done that'.I like an adventurous person who likes travel, nature and enjoys being home.she is a woaman who is at peace with himself. I am hoping to connect with people of like minds to form friendship first and then leave the rest to the Universe..
s s: It like believing all of what you see and none of what you hear
s s: Hmmmm!!! Supportive of my spiritual work<<let's talk about this
IM Jul 6, 2014 9:34:34 PM
newheaven18055: I'm a gentle soul, quiet and certainly not what most people would assume - a social butterfly. Instead I'm the quiet watchful, listener who will provide you with a listening ear after a tough day, and not judge, or assume or tell you what to do. I love nature, and water and feel an especial kinship to just being near water and having water right near my home.
s s: ok Thank you for sharing your likes, dislikes, wants and desires
s s: Now please tell me why did you saved me as your favorite on BPM
s s: What are you seeking from me?
newheaven18055: Because i feel different and i know God have a reason for us
s s: If I am a contender what would be our next step?
s s: different in what type of way besides what all you have mentioned.
newheaven18055: You're cute and i love everything i have known about you so far
s s: The contender was in reference to your statement >>>I am hoping to connect with people of like minds to form friendship first and then leave the rest to the Universe..
newheaven18055: I feel the peace of the world in the breeze across the water, the lapping of the waves on the shore, the unassuming nature of water and nature. I am one with nature, and could spend hours just sitting by the beach, river, lake, ocean and stitch, read, listen to music and feel at the end of a day that I've had an incredible day...
s s: boom!! That's what is up.. Let me count the waves~~~~
newheaven18055: I am loyal, responsible, active, loving, caring, sharing, kindhearted, warm, accommodating, sexy, compassionate, tolerant, laid back type, outgoing, welcoming to people generally, and what i hate most in my life is Cheat.
s s: i hate most in my life is Cheat<<<explain
newheaven18055: Yeah i just want to love my partner forever and i also make her happy forever..
s s: ok
IM Jul 7, 2014 12:50:16 AM
newheaven18055: I fall asleep on you sorry about that
IM Jul 12, 2014 4:45:40 AM
IM Jul 12, 2014 7:51:36 PM
newheaven18055: How are you doing today
s s: I am blessed and you
newheaven18055: Good to have you online with me now
newheaven18055: do you have a webcam
s s: I told you no the other day.
s s: do you have a webcam
s s: Ok well i guess we cannot webcam..now what
newheaven18055: You hardly come online to chat with me
newheaven18055: i dont have webcam also
s s: I told you I do not use messenger that much
newheaven18055: Because we need to be chatting everyday and se where this lead us too
newheaven18055: Then how are we going to make this work for us maybe we would be partner
newheaven18055: I'm on yahoo messenger more than Facebook
s s: ok so we can set up a time to chat on messenger everyday
newheaven18055: It very easy and fast to chat with each other
newheaven18055: I will really apreciate it if you can be coming on yahoo messenger everyday to chat with me so we would get to know more about each other maybe am going to be your man forever
newheaven18055: Same here also
newheaven18055: 10.00PM my time i will be off work and also done with Dinner
newheaven18055: let me check that out and let you know the hours difference
IM Jul 12, 2014 7:58:50 PM
s s: it is 7:51pm now
s s: what time is it where you are
newheaven18055: it 2AM now
newheaven18055: 4hours difference
s s: 2am
newheaven18055: yeah down here
s s: that is a 6 hour time difference. I see you have trouble counting
newheaven18055: Now you should know the hours difference
newheaven18055: Oops!! Yeah you're right
s s: so 10:00pm will be 4:00pm here
newheaven18055: so can you be coming online every 4pm your time to always chat with me
newheaven18055: everyday?? Can you be doing that
s s: so I will log on at 4pm everyday to chat with you.
newheaven18055: Promise me you will always do that for me? I understand you
newheaven18055: How did you spend your day today
newheaven18055: Where are you and what are you doing right now????\
s s: I was studying
newheaven18055: Aww that great
newheaven18055: Can we chat more better now and get to know more about each other
newheaven18055: sorry about that baby
s s: yes what do you want to know
newheaven18055: Are you still on the dating site?? Have you chatted with anyone on Nigeria?
IM Jul 12, 2014 8:10:53 PM
s s: yes I am still on the site and no I haven’t talked to anyone in Nigeria
s s: and if you were a Nigerian I wouldn’t be talking to you
s s: I do not care for Nigerians
newheaven18055: Ok i will like you to remove your profile so we would stay focus on each other
s s: did you remove your profile
newheaven18055: Because the first day we started chatting on here i have remove mine i always come on here everyday to check on you to chat with you all alone i dont want too search further i want to do it for my heart and for you i want to make sure i work things out with you
s s: sounds good but i am not searching anymore
newheaven18055: How many dating site are you into right now??
s s: just one
newheaven18055: Which one?
s s: cannot afford them all
s s: Blackpeoplemeet
s s: I have never dated anyone from any dating site
newheaven18055: Ok can you allow me remove your profile on the site right now
newheaven18055: I will not like to share my woman with anyone i will not like you to stay on any dating site because am not on any and am not going to join any am ok with you just work things out and make you mine forever with me....
s s: ok
newheaven18055: So can you allow me help you do that right now??
newheaven18055: Good once you get it done let me know
newheaven18055: Hope you know how to remove it
newheaven18055: Ok. That why i dont want to stress you allow me to help you do that, Just give me your email address and password and a going to get it done for you baby
s s: really .. nice try
s s: but I dont give anyone my password or my email address
newheaven18055: Yeah so are you going to allow me do that for you
s s: let me have yours
newheaven18055: Do you mean mine on the site?
IM Jul 12, 2014 8:22:01 PM
s s: I don't need you to access my account
s s: yes
newheaven18055: I have remove it but i dont think i remember my password, firstname.lastname@example.org Password. Onlytruelove123
newheaven18055: So you see am not lying too you
newheaven18055: Are you on it now
s s: neither is your picture showing up on fb or BPM. what happen to it
newheaven18055: Having issue with my FB i dont know how to use it much am trying too put my Picture back on FB but the network is not letting me
s s: newhaven was not the name you used on BPM
newheaven18055: Yeah am talking about my Login
s s: ok
newheaven18055: Can i share more about me with you, What i want in a woman amybe you will be the right woman for me??
s s: Please dont repeat anything we have talked about already
newheaven18055: Are you going to remove yours now??
s s: you have told me over and over again what kind of woman you want
s s: remember I am saving the conversations we have had
newheaven18055: Ok sure you told me that..
s s: Now what else do you have to tell me that you have not already told me
newheaven18055: I know i have told you i just want to finish it and i want to know if you will like us to give this a try and see where it lead us too
s s: sure I don't have a problem trying to see if you are the one for me
s s: as long as you are not a Nigerian
newheaven18055: I am a purposeful man. I desire a purposeful woman. Passionate and kind. I don't want a woman who also wants to be the man in the relationship. I need an intelligent woman -- not a woman who's too smart for her own good and thinks beauty has nothing to do with the physical. What turns me on is a woman who really wants something so bad that she is willing to give her life for it.
s s: send me some more pictures of you
newheaven18055: i'm a kind of man who knows what he wants and how to get it, i can hold a decent conversation and get through it just the way it started. i hate arguments, I am very romantic and affectionate. I love to joke around and just have fun. I like to eat (even if I dont look like it). I love the outdoors and all that it has to offer. But love curling up on the couch, sitting next to the one that I love, talking or watching a movie. I am happy with where I am in my life in regards to work and family life.
s s: send me some more pictures of you
newheaven18055: Just did now and also send me yours as well
IM Jul 12, 2014 8:32:50 PM
s s: I did not see any pictures it was blank
newheaven18055: You will see it maybe i should send it as file
s s: yes try that
newheaven18055: just did
newheaven18055: accept it
s s: I don't see any accept button
newheaven18055: Did you get the file i sent now
s s: no sorry
s s: I invited you to conference with me
newheaven18055: Do you want to share your picture with me
s s: do you have a mic
s s: why you decline
newheaven18055: i dont have and my Laptop speaker is not working fine
s s: ok but you will be able to hear me
s s: and you can just type back to me
newheaven18055: Ok the speaker is bad
s s: oh wow... you are really having a lot of issues when it comes to us communicating
s s: ok that is not working
s s: it booted you
newheaven18055: Yeah because i accept that
s s: can I ask you a question?
newheaven18055: Ok ask me
s s: What nationality r you?
newheaven18055: I was born in Germany
s s: Ok so you were born in Germany and mixed with what?
IM Jul 12, 2014 8:40:33 PM
newheaven18055: when i was 10yrs i lost my parent and relocate to my uncle in Ohio
s s: ok you told me that already
newheaven18055: didn't you read the first message i sent to you on FB?
newheaven18055: Then you're taking the conversation back again
s s: yes but are you a Nigerian or African American
newheaven18055: Black American
s s: ok Thank you
s s: for answering my question
newheaven18055: It nothing
newheaven18055: Can we push further
s s: yes when you coming home
newheaven18055: 1 Month then am home willing to relocate for the right woman for me
s s: so in one month . that is great
s s: So you are willing to relocate
s s: but you may not like it here then what
newheaven18055: I will as far as am in love with you and you love me also
newheaven18055: I love to smile and laugh hold hands and hug. Depending on the occasion, I believe in mutual communication and enjoy meaningful relationships with my Partner..I am a simple man looking for that simple woman to be friends and maybe more. I am not in to head games. I am honest and trustworthy and do not believe in cheating on each other.
IM Jul 12, 2014 8:56:25 PM
s s: Ok you said that the other day
newheaven18055: Yeah baby
newheaven18055: If you're the right woman for me am going to love you till i breath know more
s s: I am not the type of woman you have to constantly repeat yourself
newheaven18055: I love a woman who looks great without all the make up. Someone whos not so concerned in the morning about bed head as she would be cuddling. I think a woman in the morning can be quit sex with bed head. I enjoy very simple things and it doesnt take much for me to be contented. Although I have goals and dreams, I still want my log cabin somewhere, I concentrate most on whats in front of me now and what it will take to secure my future.
s s: what is bed head?
s s: <<puzzling look on my face
newheaven18055: Yeah.I want someone who is driven and determined to have a succuessful relationship. I can admit Im wrong and say im sorry I want a woman who can do the same. To me a relationship isnt 50/50 but 100/100. Bot must put maximum in maximum effort to achieve maximum results. Life is truly to short to not be happy atleast 95% of the time. I wish 100% percent were achievable but, I am a realist.
s s: I whole heartily agreed
s s: 100% percent that is how it is supposed to be
newheaven18055: I enjoy walks, running, the gym, and showering my partner with attention. I am a very hands on man. I know that woman get tired after along day and i understand that down time is important .i just hope I find someone who is will to maybe shower together and just sit in peace. No expectations required. Well maybe sometimes.
newheaven18055: I know we are all complex and multi-faceted indidviduals. Basically im looking for someone who has family values, is non-judgemental, would rather kiss than fight, laugh instead of cry, and be content with life. I have had money and a lot of things but , i want someone more than any of that can buy. If your as wore out as I am of trying to impress someone with material things and psychotic round and round arguments , then we should talk. Im looking for the God believing soul mate Ive missed somewhere in life.
s s: You don't have to look any further. I am right here waiting for your return..
newheaven18055: What do you understand by commitment?
s s: one mind, one heart and one soul
s s: commitment means the family that prays together stay together
s s: commitment means man that finds a wife finds a good thing
newheaven18055: Commitment is the greatest key to a successful relationship. If you are committed you will always find a way to work things out Communication... talking and open honest communication about how you feel. What makes you happy and what upsets you. If you don't tell your partner then they can't do what makes you happy and vice versa The way a person treats his/her parents reveals how they WILL treat you! If it's with love, kindness and respect, then this is what you will receive.
IM Jul 12, 2014 9:12:27 PM
newheaven18055: But if it's with criticism, defensiveness and disrespect, then this too you will receive... EVENTUALLY... it's almost certainly a guarantee! So watch and listen to the answers you get in their actions and words BEFORE you jump into bed I feel that a relationship should always be based upon honesty and acceptance. When you can fully accept yourself, honesty will come naturally.
newheaven18055: This in return will leave your partner feeling comfortable with you, knowing there is nothing to hide. If two people can see each other in full view with complete acceptance, they can build a successful relationship from this I believe that the most important 'key' to a successful relationship would have to be 'trust'. I believe that with trust, love will follow. However, what I have noticed is that many people think trust, or expect that trust is to be earned by the other person when in all actuality it is something that comes from within yourself.
newheaven18055: I feel great about us and i want you to know that i have so much love inside of me to show you and if you're ready for this am going to love you forever
s s: How old did you say you were?
s s: ok you look younger
s s: and when was the pic of you showing taken
newheaven18055: Last 2 month
newheaven18055: All too many times people will say they don't trust due to past experiences. What they don't realize is that they have built up those proverbial walls to protect them from the very thing they are searching for...yes, there is a risk in trusting someone, but when you finally find that 'right' person, it makes all the past experiences and lessons learned very much worth the risk All of life's little lessons do not have to be painful.
newheaven18055: even when they seem so at the time. You just have to chalk it up to experience and move on. Nothing is worth closing your heart. Nothing is worth living in a world of fearing what bad 'may' come to you Without trust, you close your heart to the happiness and joy that true love brings. It's only my experience... and it's what I believe has given me the wonderful gift of 'true' love. It's a hard thing to do, a scary thing, but very much worth itThis is not to go without saying that some people may betray your trust... that's the risk..
IM Jul 12, 2014 9:28:04 PM
newheaven18055: but why allow past betrayals to prolong the pain by building a fortress around your heart that not only protects you from pain/betrayal, but also denies you the ability to experience happiness and joy Most have been hurt enough by one person, why allow them and their actions to stop us from finding what we search for? I say open your hearts to trust and bask in the beauty, happiness, and joy, of the true love that will follow.
newheaven18055: For everyone there IS a someone, you just can't find them if you hide away all your life.Not expecting your partner to think and react to things the way you do. Resolving any conflict in your relationship depends on this. It's important to respect your partner's feelings, even if they are different from your own. If you and your partner both do this you can usually resolve bad situations I think a good relationship requires being each other's best friend, and trusting one another. I think each should respect the other's opinion and that stupid arguments over stupid things are healthy, as long as they are not taken too far Good communication.
s s: no type of argument is good
s s: I don't like it
s s: I don't participate in it
newheaven18055: That Great
s s: I lve a peaceful life
s s: drama free
s s: I love peace
s s: I love to be happy
s s: Nothing in this world can ever take my joy
newheaven18055: Never being ashamed of each other for any reason. On occasion surprising your mate with a nice romantic date or evening together and telling each other I love you There is a lot of love and caring in the relationship. There has to be love in order for a relationship to work A good relationship is when your partner is more than just a partner..
newheaven18055: they should be your best friend A good relationship is when two lovers understand each other, they're concerned for each other and they respect one another A good relationship is one purely based on trust, if nothing else. Being able to be miles apart yet never worrying a minute about what they're doing.
newheaven18055: Communication at all times is so important, and most importantly, respect for each other and their need for alone time as well as together time Two people trusting each other fully, not being afraid to tell the other what one thinks, whether it be good or bad, and the other respecting their opinion. Being able to enjoy the same things with each other, enjoying each other, and being able to take their separate lives and smoothly combine their lifestyles into a couple's lifestyle
s s: yes Amen to that.
newheaven18055: A good relationship exists when either individual has the freedom to leave but neither wants toI honestly think that a good relationship is one where there are no secrets You are completely open with each other. But the biggest key is that the other person knows the worst possible thing about you and they love you even more for it. On top of that you have to have faith and trust.
s s: so do you have any secrets?
s s: you have not told me about
newheaven18055: No..So that when your man goes out with an old female friend you can completely trust him and know that no matter what happens, he will always come home to you. I know it may not seem like much but as long as you have that and love, you are in a wonderful relationship. I define a good relationship by the way you treat each other. You could hold them and run your fingers down the side of their face. Feel comfortable you know. And you can also define it with fighting.
s s: well first of all my man would not be going out with a female friend
s s: unless it was communicated first. and if he was my man then I should be included with going out along with the friend
s s: this is why I don't want a man. i want a husband
newheaven18055: Fighting or Arguing is not my favorite thing to do with my Partner. But it needs to be done. It's not a real relationship until you do Argue I would have to say good communication! Equality, LOVE, not just lust, and most of all, friendship is needed For me, a good relationship is being able to open up to each other even about the simple things in life.
s s: wow you sound like you never had a relationship without arguing
s s: Love is not about arguing
s s: I don;t like it.. i steer away from it
s s: arguing is evil
s s: it is a demonic spirit
s s: and it will still your joy
newheaven18055: A relationship between two people cannot grow without trust. Loving a person is not enough, because if you've got doubts building up inside then you your relationship won't work. A good relationship is when the two of you can actually feel better about your relationship after an argument; it's when you can really respect each other's differences and openly discuss feelings at all times
s s: I would never go into a relationships with what you just typed
s s: I see you put more trust in people
newheaven18055: You have good relationship where there is compromise, honesty, sensitivity, and a feel for the needs and wants of the other person and yourself When the couple listens and doesn't interrupt when they're trying to work out a fight. They care for each other deeply. They share similar interests A good relationship is when both parties can freely express themselves with one another and to have that open connection to be able to say anything to each other. To have trust and faith in one another.
s s: You putting to much trust in man
newheaven18055: Basically a honest, trusting, loving and open relationship A good relationship is frankness and open-minded communication between friends. It is a two-way communication without dominance and/or hypocrisy in it A good relationship isn't necessarily flawless, because human beings aren't flawless. It's more important that you can grow with the person you love. If you can learn and grow each day with your best friend standing by you in body and in spirit-then you have a good relationship
s s: There is a big difference between expressing and arguing to get a point across
IM Jul 12, 2014 9:49:34 PM
newheaven18055: When you can feel comfortable about everything together. Always being able to talk, joke. Taking your commitment seriously with one another and never taking each other for granted A good relationship must a give and take basis, in order for you to understand each other. Never fail to listen and understand the situation your in to. Be open minded and be ready to any obstacle that will come in you're way.
s s: I also see you have had enough time to study relationships so you dont make the same mistake again
newheaven18055: Sure... A good relationship is when both members fully trust each other and can have a blast with each other, knowing how to laugh and be there for each other It's something divine. Where the understanding between the two partners is mutual. No talking required, but it's something you can just feel, something special. Where you can just believe in each other, really believe. How there is a difference between saying it and actually feeling it so this is my opinion towards a commitment relationship..
s s: Thanks for your opinion
newheaven18055: what do you think about me now
newheaven18055: Am i the right man for you
newheaven18055: What do you think now
s s: right now conversation wise you are it.
s s: but face to face will tell all
newheaven18055: Should we give this a try and see should we go into something that we are not backing out something that we are into till the end of time
s s: sure
s s: Time will tell
newheaven18055: Are you ready to be my wife?
s s: are you asking me
newheaven18055: Are you ready to date me
s s: nope I do not date
newheaven18055: That why am asking you are you ready to get married too me?
IM Jul 12, 2014 9:57:12 PM
s s: I want a husband
newheaven18055: I also want a wife
newheaven18055: Do i have it all what you're looking for in a Husband
newheaven18055: now you're my woman, Promise me you wiull never let me go no matter what and you will never let me down you will always do everything to make me happy forever...
s s: Yes .
newheaven18055: Ok my wife
newheaven18055: I love you
s s: Lol..
newheaven18055: yeah i will not my wife
newheaven18055: I don't mind swimming the biggest ocean for you am going to love you forever
newheaven18055: Awwww you're so sweet
newheaven18055: my wife]
newheaven18055: I love my wife Ms. Harrington
s s: sounds nice
s s: Mr. Harrington
newheaven18055: I found everything in you
newheaven18055: You're my dream come true and you complete me
s s: I am blushing
IM Jul 12, 2014 10:06:04 PM
newheaven18055: Whenever life seems to drift you away from me, I can't help but cry. You've grown to be such a part of me that without you life is no more than a desperate sigh. They do say love comes and goes, and to that I disagree. So, here's my hand, take it and don't let go of me Yes my wife i do promise you, You can always count on me
newheaven18055: I chose to love you in silence, for in silence I find no rejection. I chose to love you in your loneliness, for in your loneliness no one owns you, but me
s s: awww you so poetic
s s: whats your phone number?
newheaven18055: Phone off now going to give you tomorrow
newheaven18055: Give me your own number i will call you
s s: see I told you have you too many issues when I try to communicate with you
newheaven18055: Issue like what
newheaven18055: How much is a Prepaid International card??
s s: the phone off, bad connection, can’t chat on fb, profile deleted on BPM
s s: I think the card is 10.00 for 30 minute talk time
newheaven18055: How much is that?
s s: ten dollars
newheaven18055: Ok $10 right?
newheaven18055: Give me your i can call you with the hotel manager phone number
s s: I really don't know how much talk time it gives
newheaven18055: My phone is not working like that baby
newheaven18055: Just give me your number and i will call you with the Hotel Manager Phone..
s s: the hotel manager phone
s s: how come his phone works and not yours
newheaven18055: Yes, He has long distance calls
newheaven18055: You know am Using USA number down here you should it will be different
s s: why don't you buy you a Nigerian phone
IM Jul 12, 2014 10:16:52 PM
s s: so we can talk on the phone
newheaven18055: Ok i will see if i can get that tomorrow what about that on Monday my wife??
s s: what calling me on monday
newheaven18055: Maybe and if i cant i will give you my Nigeria number so you will be able to call me anytime what about that??
newheaven18055: Love is not about finding the right person, but creating a right relationship. It's not about how much love you have in the beginning but how much love you build till the end
newheaven18055: What is more important to you the love you share, the memories you have or the lover? Give love a chance to swallow you up. Don't just think it will happen in a instant, it will suprise you before you know it, but it will be the most rewarding experience you will ever have
s s: The love shared
s s: because loved shared will have memories and the rest is history
newheaven18055: A relationship is a two way street. It's never all your fault or the other persons. You go into the relationship together and work through it all together
newheaven18055: For me, you are the queen, the rest is just the rest
newheaven18055: Respect is what we owe, love is what we give.'
newheaven18055: I would give up anything just to be with you
s s: Mr. Harrington.. you going to spoil me with all this love
newheaven18055: If he is the first thing you think of when you wake up, the only thing you think of when you're awake, and the last thing you think of before you go to bed, then he is really somebody special
IM Jul 12, 2014 10:24:14 PM
newheaven18055: The first time my heart was broken I thought I was through; I swore I'd never love again and believe me this was true, but when you walked into my life I knew you were worth loving, just like before, just like the first time.'
newheaven18055: My wife will you be coming everyday around 10.00PM my time now you know it 6hours difference
newheaven18055: I know that you are not perfect and nor can I claim to be either, but please believe me, when I say that I want to be by your side, to hold your hand, to treasure you in the morning and in the noon-tide, to be next to you, to be held close to your heart now and for the rest of my living years, to comfort you, dry your tears and calm your most frightening fears, to fight your battles and show no shame to scream my love for you out loud all over the land
s s: and I dont claim to be perfect
newheaven18055: Hope you will always come online everyday at the normal time for me
newheaven18055: Yeah baby
newheaven18055: Can we be doing this everyday my wife
s s: I dont know if I will be able to do everynight
newheaven18055: I understand you
newheaven18055: But whenever you want to come online let it by 10.00PM my time so you will always meet me online
s s: to talk to you every night
newheaven18055: Ok i understand you my wife
newheaven18055: Ok wife
s s: Thank you for being so understandable
IM Jul 12, 2014 10:28:57 PM
newheaven18055: I love you my wife
s s: Please hurry and come home..
newheaven18055: But i will not like to miss you for a day
s s: Take me away
newheaven18055: Sure i will
newheaven18055: Anything for you baby
newheaven18055: Yeah baby
newheaven18055: At least try and be coming on everyday for me please
newheaven18055: I would be missing you so much and thinking about you baby
s s: I will try to come online everyday
newheaven18055: I love you my wife, GOODNIGHT
s s: Good night
IM Jul 14, 2014 4:31:11 AM
newheaven18055: Blowing you a kiss right now
IM Jul 14, 2014 4:39:13 PM
newheaven18055: I love you so much more with all my heart
IM Jul 15, 2014 8:11:48 AM
s s: Good morning did you get a phone in Nigeria so I can call you.
IM Jul 15, 2014 12:03:08 PM
s s: How are you?
newheaven18055: Am doing great and you baby
newheaven18055: Wowowoo am so happy to hear that from you
newheaven18055: Missed you so much and i have been thinking about you
newheaven18055: The more we chat the more i fall in love with you..
s s: How is everything going in Nigeria
newheaven18055: Going on fine but it raining a little..
newheaven18055: I find true love in you
s s: Thank you
newheaven18055: There is one moment in your life when you are with someone and you feel like the world has stopped and your life seems so perfect, make sure you never lose that person.
newheaven18055: I love everything about you
newheaven18055: What have you been doing all day
s s: Nothing
newheaven18055: Ok baby
newheaven18055: Hope you've eaten
s s: it is noon here..looks like it might rain
newheaven18055: Our heart is like an unfinished puzzle, that is why we search for the perfect one to complete
IM Jul 15, 2014 12:10:05 PM
s s: did you get a phone in Nigeria so I can call you.
s s: when are you going to send me some more pictures
newheaven18055: Am going to get it soon baby before Friday
newheaven18055: I dont have any on my laptop baby would have send it too you baby
s s: ok that will be great to hear your voice
newheaven18055: When you find love never let it go - it's a long fall down from the clouds
s s: well take some pictures whenever you get a chance
s s: well I need to get off this computer
newheaven18055: Ok baby.If you love somebody let them know, don't go off doing stupid things and letting them go
newheaven18055: Ok baby are you going to come online later in the day baby
newheaven18055: 10.00pm my time baby
s s: I will try which will be 4 pm time.. I have to study
newheaven18055: Yeah baby
newheaven18055: I wuld be missing you and thinking about you
newheaven18055: Just make sure you tak good care of yourself for me alone baby
s s: bye for now
newheaven18055: Ok baby
IM Jul 16, 2014 1:22:38 AM
newheaven18055: Hello baby
IM Jul 16, 2014 4:34:28 AM
s s: good morning
newheaven18055: My love
newheaven18055: Am here
newheaven18055: How was your night??
s s: What you doing?
newheaven18055: I have been thinking baout you and i missed you so much more baby
s s: so it is10 am there you must be getting ready to go to work
newheaven18055: Yeah but youre not diturbing me am on my way to work already
newheaven18055: What are you doing right now
s s: about to study
newheaven18055: What have you been thinking about me and what do you miss about me, Because i have really misswd you so much more and i want you to know that you're always in my thought every second
s s: I been thinking when you going to get that phone and send me some more pictures
s s: so wishing you were not in Nigeria
newheaven18055: I just love everything about you baby
newheaven18055: I wanted to tell you something last night but can i do that right now and is very important baby
s s: go ahead I listening. what do you want to tell me
newheaven18055: I use the money on me to get tools On Monday and now i want to pay some other stuff and i need you to help me with $500 am going to pay you back my love
s s: really I was going to ask you to send me some money so I can keep my internet on
IM Jul 16, 2014 4:43:15 AM
s s: You better call your job and ask for an advancement
s s: on your pay
newheaven18055: Yeah i can but till am done before i get paid
s s: sorry.. I cannot even get you to send me pictures now you want me to loan you money
newheaven18055: Money is not the problem just that before i get paid am going to finish the job because is not a small amount of money we are talking about $400,000 here
newheaven18055: I send you picture on FB baby
s s: you really must think I am crazy to send someone I don’t even know 500.00
newheaven18055: I only have one picture on my laptop and after that i dont have any anymore
s s: oh well I don’t know what to tell you
newheaven18055: why are you sounding like this
newheaven18055: How do you mean
newheaven18055: Tell me your mind
s s: it sounded good in the beginning
s s: you must don't know about the 419 Nigerian scams
newheaven18055: believe me
s s: I am going to send you a link about how Nigeria scams start out on the dating site .. then they move you to the instant messaging
newheaven18055: Just help me out baby
newheaven18055: The more we live the more we learn
newheaven18055: we are not the same
newheaven18055: Please dont compare me
s s: baby i would like to believe you but until you can send me enough convincing info to learn more about you I am afraid that your new wife to be might have to leave you
newheaven18055: Don't leave me baby!!
s s: actually some things you have typed appear on this scam website
newheaven18055: What is that on the site baby
s s: http://www.delphifa..#comments
s s: I really hope you do not find yourself listed here
newheaven18055: never ever
IM Jul 16, 2014 4:47:43 AM
s s: this is why I told you I am recording these conversations
newheaven18055: Let me chck it out now
s s: have fun reading
s s: some of your conversation appeared in some of these people conversation
s s: you think about it
newheaven18055: Believe me
newheaven18055: Trust me!!
s s: first you ask me for my log in info to the dating website
s s: now you ask for money
s s: something always wrong with your computer
newheaven18055: Yeah i know because i want to remove your profile and stay focus on us baby that why i was aksing you for that baby
s s: and you copied and paste much of what you said about loving me
s s: because i found some of your words you stated in one of those reports
newheaven18055: Nope baby
newheaven18055: Believe me
s s: yea go and read those 345 comments about how people have been scammed saying the same thing
newheaven18055: Ok baby
s s: your game was tight but not that tight
newheaven18055: But i want you to know that if it what you feel for me you will do anything for me and trust me baby
s s: I have been on the internet for over 14 years
s s: wrong answer Jeff
s s: please don’t take me for a fool
newheaven18055: I'm not
s s: let’s turn the table
newheaven18055: Believe me
s s: if you love me
newheaven18055: Trust me baby
IM Jul 16, 2014 4:53:45 AM
newheaven18055: If you do everything will be fine with us baby
s s: wire me 500.00
newheaven18055: Just because of 500.00 you're saying all this too me
s s: really sorry baby
s s: you don’t sound convincing to me
s s: just because you ask me for money
newheaven18055: Believe me
s s: what would you do if i don’t send it
s s: you would find another person on the dating site
newheaven18055: What do you want me to do for you now
s s: send me 500.00